Wow! All I can say is wow! I almost think B is trying to outperform his mother. She used to have outbursts that lasted for hours and often ended up with everyone in the house crying and begging her to stop screaming. Now B seems to be on the same path.
I came home from a waltz class at around 9 pm. B was camped out in the living room, watching Spiderman. I had earlier told him that I was coming home and wanted to watch the Phoenix Suns basketball game and he should not try to hassle me.
Sure enough, when I arrived, the house reeked of cigarettes and there were several roached in my glass near the TV. Yuck! He proceeded to swear at and curse me for the next hour or so. He threw a glass against his wall, breaking it into pieces, all the while screaming at me about how abusive I was. Mostly I just stood there amazed.
Finally, I got his bed back in his bedroom and was able to sit down and try and relax. He paced around, swearing and accusing me of all kinds of nasty things, mostly parroting what he had heard from his mother, I guess.
His accusations made no sense at all, they were not even relevant. She sure has done a lifetime of damage to our children by endlessly criticising and accusing me. Parents are not supposed to do this, even if they are divorced. Why do they think I divorced her anyway?
He continues his pattern of doing totally obnoxious things and then tries to get me to become physical with him. Sometimes it is hard not to hit him or something, he just goes on and on and on, swearing , cursing, saying the most foul things to and about me.
What was my crime? I made him sleep in his bedroom.
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